I Knew I Loved You?

I'm sure that some of us have heard that Savage Garden song before... My question is: Is it really possible to know that you love someone even before you've ever met them.... please explain your reasons

I Knew I Loved You?
i know I'm gonna sound like a hopeless romantic which i totally am...but yeah i think its so possible...whenever i meet someone i always have some feeling about them and some people when you meet them you just feel like i need to have that person in my life...i think it happens with love too maybe its our six sense telling us something i don't know my x boyfriend as soon as i saw him...i felt i needed to know him...whatever it took...and i could feel the love we would have even before we had it...!!! you know you dream of this perfect person all your life and you think about...especially woman do...and every once in a while God helps out he puts us in the right place with the right person and that's when you know that you're meant to be with that person even if you just bumped into them... you have a feeling which is so strong and so undeniable and it all feels right.!! one of my best friends told me when she met her husband the first time on there blind date she just felt a connection like they knew each other and had talked for hours and hours before...and he was all that she wanted....when they had only just met..!! so i believe that.. love doesn't continue as we find someone it exist within us from forever...its the same love that's been in us that's transformed and is given a face and name to love...that's all... PS i love that song it just makes me feel all warm and cuddly..!!
Reply:i believe it too!! =) and i really wanted best answer for this one thanks.. Report Abuse

Reply:Yes...you see there actions and what they do even before speaking to them or getting to know them.
Reply:well you could but technically no
Reply:I think in your heart, there's a promise of someone, so yes, I believe so.
Reply:I don't know how it works, but I know that I loved every child I ever carried before I ever laid eyes on their beautiful faces.
Reply:I think that there can definitely be a mutual raw, immediate, heart racing attraction upon the first glance of a person. However, to actually truly be in love, I think you would have to meet them and get to know them. Love involves communication, respect, kindness, compromise, trust, honesty, understanding, compassion, willingness to forgive, and so much more. It would be hard to determine if a person was capable of all of those things without actually getting to know them. There are a slew of questions that come along too. What do they like? dislike? What are their hopes and dreams? Fears and insecurities? Their bad habits? Do we share some of the same goals? All of these are questions that requires some time to find the answers to. In my opinion, if you find the love you have been hoping and dreaming about since you were a little girl, then the time spent learning these things is not only part of the fun, but well worth it.
Reply:destiny and kismet?
Reply:if you have this perfect mate dreamed up there is bound to be someone in this world just like you imagined ( if it is realistic). So you love this person before you have ever met them.
Reply:I find that impossible
Reply:No - it's not possible. That's the same as "love at first sight" which usually is just LUST at first sight.





You can't really and truly be in love with someone without knowing them first.
Reply:Yep, I fell in love w/ my wife when I first met her - she brought me some pizza, and I had been hungry.
Reply:i dont think so.. i just dont.
Reply:Never deny opportunity.





Despite logic, always believe that anything is possible.





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Reply:You can IM with a person for a while, correspond via e-mail, or even back and forth commenting on myspace.


The more you communicate with a person, you can develop


a desire, a want, a need for the other. You can think you are in love, but you are really not, until you are with that person and find out for sure. All other means are superficial.
Reply:I believe that somebody is making me lunch right now. The only problem is that i don't know who, or where they are... man that sucks!
Reply:to me that is impossible because you dont even know them you dont no they exist
Reply:yeah u just have this feeling that their is someone out there that you love.
Reply:Not sure but that is one of my favorite all time songs along with Truly, Madly, Deeply
Reply:Nope sorry I dont believe in that. I think that you have to be able to know and trust the person before you know you love them. There are a few exceptions like when parents have a new baby-- they know that they love the baby before they accually know it. Otherwise, I think it might be possible for some people but I dont believe it myself.
Reply:hmmm....i think so....but i think it a different form of love at that stage. there are so many types of love. friendship, family, or romantic. and i think that when you are first meeting someone it starts as friendship love i guess.
Reply:i fell in love over the internet after weeks of just talking, and was months before we met!... cheesy maybe, but true... am pleased to say we just got he decree absolute!! lol
Reply:I can recalll when the song hit the air waves.


It's that kind of ;


Grab ya, Feel good, Sing Along Kind of Song.


So, I sang along each and every time I heard it and still do.


In answer to your question.


From the first time I heard it,


I felt a connection to the words.


I felt truth in them .


I have met some one through Yahoo 360,


( where by the way my profile is LUCKY, (becasue I am)).


Late :NOV06/DECO6


He, and I connected and to recall how it manifested into what its become...well it feels like the best thing that ever happened to me.


Fast forward: 360 connections...E-mails that turned into Instant Messaging..


In which I'd get excited and happy behind words .


Still months later when I see he's online and has sent me an IM. hmmmmmmmmm very nice feeling over comes me..


A rush...


And, when I , IM him back and I see his name appear at the bottom of the screen , almost too quick to believe ...well if I died right then %26amp; there I'd be the happiest camper.


Im's--- turned into telephone calls.


Of which I've never kept track of the time...


He's meticulous and informed me month to month..of just how many hours we've spent talking..when he mentioned 70 hours well I still didn't quite get it


Until; further reflection one day-


When I realized this...


70 hours is almost 3 full days.


Who ever said men don't talk much?


I can NOT hear him enough.


The sound of his voice sends me.


He has told me stories about his life that made me laugh so hard I honestly could not stop laughing !


Seriously, I'm 50 years old and I have never laughed as hard in my entire life as I have with him.


I've actaully gone to a zone I 'd never felt be4, and quite honestly did not know existed.


So, the phone calls led to picture exchanges and deeper feelings of intimacy %26amp; trust.


A freindship was born.


Yes, I've never met this man in the REAL WORLD, but I love him like no other before.


And, if i ever stopped loving him I know it would be the stupiest thing I could ever do.


Loving him makes me feel sooooo good!


July 1st ..


9 short days....


He will be flying into to my home state of California. How LUCKY am I?


I can only speak for myself...


But yes it is possible to love someone before you meet them.


Now, granted pessimists might chime in and say...ahhhh yes...but can you love that person AFTER you meet them.


Well, again all I can tell you is my experience .


Y*E*S*!


I plan on loving him as long as he'll let me.


I've got the perfect package.


An intelligent, smart, funny, hard wrking man.


Successful, kind gentleman, who gets it that I'm a strong, sexy, intelligent woman who was waiting for a guy just like him.


The best part?


He's one of a kind...


And, we both know it.


Great question Lucky!


Lastly, I hope every woman can feel as lucky as I do to have met a wonderful, soulFULL, sexy man who makes me sooooo very happy.


And, brings out all the love in my heart.


Jim...If you're reading this...


I KNOW I LOVE YOU.


And, I'm looking forward to;


Meeting you on;


July 1st.--- San Francisco Airport ! :) xoxoxo
Reply:It's poetic and all, but how can you love something before you know it exists? My vote is no.
Reply:I guess it is, because you know that you would have to love the one you're going to marry someday, and you may or may not have met that person yet.


So yes, it could be true, but in a kind of round-a-bout way.
Reply:Long Answer:


I think so, but this solely depends on if you really know what you want and are looking for in a mate. If you are just kind of stumbling around hoping someone will flop down on your lap and you guys will fall in love, then no.


I figure, if you have a pretty set standard, and then you meet someone who pretty much sums what you are looking for, PLUS they do it with style, charisma, and humor, then you're set! It's kind of like going to buy a pair of shoes, then looking in every department store to find the shoes that you have in mind, only to come across a pair of shoes that are not only exactly what you are looking for, but they fit comfortably, they are not too expensive, and you get 50% off the matching purse! How sweet is that? I know I'd be in love. :)





Short Answer:


Heck yeah! as long as you know what you are looking for.
Reply:idk i loved my girlfriend from the day she said hello wich was 5 years ago so i think i loved her before i met her but i have no reason
Reply:No, how can you love someone if you dont even know them.
Reply:Well im sure there talking about being adults n loving eachother but i dont think you can love someone b4 u can ,et them unless your having a baby. lol i love her more then anything and shes not even doing to be here for another 2 months and 16 days..♥ but i love her dearly!! and I can't wait till shes her so i can hold her! n love her more.
Reply:its a feeling like you have known them all you're life at first sight and yes I'm being mussy
Reply:That's one of my favorite songs, and it's one of the ringtones that I use.





It just means that the new love has all the attributes you've dreamed that your significant other would have. Therefore, when you meet them, you feel like you've "dreamed them into life" and loved them before you met them.





Yes, it's possible.
Reply:yes because whenyou have a crush you kind of admire them from afar without really knowing them or you could be an online preditor and love a you 14 year old girl eventhough her myspace is on private